I think there’s a difference between sounding like an asshole and being honest. You can tell a woman “hey, I just want to have sex” and not be considered an asshole. If she wants to, then you’re set. If not, then “moving on!!!” to a girl who will comply. There should be no reason why someone who JUST wants to have sex be considered any less of a good person. i think the point is to make your intentions clear, crystal clear! And to communicate with the other person on a good level if you want to get what you want.
I know that if a person wanted something from me, sex or whatever, then I prefer he/she tell me straight up instead of being sneaky about it.
Honesty is in fact a great policy. If the person can’t handle it, then you shouldn’t be wasting your time.
On the topic of sex: being sexually active, or sex positive, or whatever you want to call it, is NOT a bad thing. We have turned it into a negative subject, a taboo. Thus, we create this cycle that women, in the case of the video, have to be lied to by men in order to not hear their honesty which might “offend” them. Most times, in terms of sex, it shouldn’t be offensive. But it can be, this is where the difference between an asshole and an honest person comes into play, where it matters most.
So, I may agree to some degree with the video, but I definitely don’t approve of his language: Constantly referring to women as “bitch” doesn’t fly with me so much.
